Thursday, August 4, 2011
People say I am annoying what should I do?
I suspect the annoyance is as much in their heads as in your behaviour. There are people that will complain no matter what-if that is the case, don't hang with them they are not worth it. On the other hand, you indicate you may have some social awkwardness. If people don't like you "pulling their leg" then maybe you should just stop. Not everyone enjoys that, and it may embarrass them if they thought you were truthful, or just aggravate them that you seem to be name dropping. Talk-but encourage the other person to talk more. Ask them about themselves, then sit and listen. Head nodding, or brief "really?" type comments will convince them you are the best listener in the world. Monitor your volume. Stay loud enough to be heard, but not so loud EVERYONE can hear you. Leave relatively early. No one likes the person that closes the bar, or won't leave so the hosts can straighten up and go to bed. And make some other friends so that you can rotate who you hang with.
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